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Stop Surviving Toxic Relationships To Get Love

January 9, 2020 by TheMonaLita💋

Facebook has a funny way of inspiring topics for me to write about. This morning as I was browsing posts on my timeline I came across this: After reading it

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Dear Gen-X Moms, Here’s Why We Ain’t Worried About Your Ashy Ass Sons

August 17, 2018 by TheMonaLita💋

Now before you even begin to attempt to label me as bitter or some other knee-jerk judgement from reading the title that can be made about a Black woman in

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Shit, I Was A “Tasha”!

August 9, 2017 by TheMonaLita💋

Damn it! I really was a “Tasha”. Who is Tasha you ask? Tasha is a character from the hit HBO series, “Insecure”. She is the rebound love interest, I use

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When “I’m Sorry” Is Long Overdue

August 6, 2017 by TheMonaLita💋

As many of you have read from following my blog for the past two years, I have had my fair share of shitty relationships and encounters with men. That’s essentially

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This Is Why Remy Ma & Papoose’s Marriage Should Matter To Millennials

March 5, 2016 by TheMonaLita💋

As a millennial it is nearly impossible to turn on the TV and to see a genuinely positive couple to represent my generation. There are plenty of millennial couples that are in the entertainment biz who drag one another through the social media mud for more followers and likes. We can see that everyday.

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The Size of The Ring DOES Matter

February 29, 2016 by TheMonaLita💋

Many, many, many, many moons ago I myself got engaged (child, you can read more about dodging that bullet here). Growing up I read all of the grand fairly tales about the day that a man would get down on his knee confessing his love for me, placing a beautiful ring on my hand and would ask for my hand in marriage.

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A “Hall Pass”: Does It Hurt or Help Relationships?

November 9, 2015 by TheMonaLita💋

This is the unimaginable time that a wife/girlfriend foolishly agrees that her man gets to do whatever he wants outside of the relationship without fear of consequences. Seeing that we live in a day and age of ‘Netflix and Chill’

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My Four Day Pregnancy: It Changed My Life

October 28, 2014 by TheMonaLita💋

Ok so the title isn’t telling the whole story but in a sense it gives a glimpse into my pregnancy and how it changed the trajectory of where my life